What a man must or must not change to
Change is what we all called it. But the question is; which change did will do or turn to, either bad or good. Let us use this medium to ask ourselves the kind of change we want turn to. Let pick some things for a start Relationship & Marriage
Relationship can be in any form but majorly let talk about the one between a man and a woman or a boy and a girl. In this write up, we re talking on man attitude towards change. Many start the relationship or the marriage just like the one in the garden of Eden. Just like the one between Abraham and Sarah, like a flower that can not die nor the sun that cannot fade off. The question is what make or constitute to the changes give birth to by man. These make the woman to ask the question; is it the man I married? What have I done wrong to deserve these? The Christian Sisters we ask questions like this; Where did I miss it or get it wrong? A lot of questions we rush into our Ladies, Girls, Sisters or women mind thinking of the next step to make their men returned back to the first Love. Many Ladies took advantage of it to pay back their men or boys, forgot the word that " to err is human; but to forgive is divine" but few execute time to bring back their men.
However, it important for man to try all possible best to sustain and maintain the first Love. Let us check the following thing to avoid or accept to change to it in the room of change in life such as:
●Don’t shout at your wife/girl when you are talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
●Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife/girl will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
●Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
●Never compare your wife/girl to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
●Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex. She owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
●Hide nothing from her. You are now one and she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
●Do not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
●Do not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her eCARll old age. (Eph. 5:29)
●Never shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)
●Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
●All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
●Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
●Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. That’s the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
●Spend time with her to do Bible study and pray. (James 5:16)
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
●Never use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
●Do not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her. (Eph. 5:30)
●Honour her parents and be kind to her siblings. (SOS 8:2)
●Never cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that. (Eph. 5:25)
●Grow to be like Jesus. That’s the only way you can be a good and godly husband. (Rom. 8:29)
Men should remain what they're and not to change to what we bring destruction and flood to the happy and joyful home
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