GUYS, TAKE IT EASY ON YOUR LADY...
GUYS, TAKE IT EASY ON YOUR LADY...
The moment some guys propose and the lady accepts, all hell breaks loose! The next thing is, "when will you come and visit me?" To do what? Know the size of your bed?
Some will ask her to enter the kitchen, do all the dishes and wash some dirty, stinking plates piled for days on end! What the heck do you think you are marrying? A slave? Some even march her to only God knows where and ask her to do all the laundry! Thunder fire satan!
You are not marrying a slave, neither are you marrying a sex partner!
Some sex maniac even ask for a kiss, fondling, romancing and sex barely a week into the courtship, brother! Burooodaaaa!!!!
You are marrying a help mate not a slave or sex machine!
She is coming to help you not carry your load on her head! Help mate means, you've been doing all your cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc with your two strong, able hands, she is just coming to help so stop commanding her up and down you are not yet married for God's sake!
Marriage is not for users! It is not for lazy, smelly, dirty young men looking for a dummy to clean them up.
She will take care of laundry when she gets married and keep every where sparkling clean, that's not her job in courtship! She is under no obligation whatsoever to cook for you and do any chore!
She is not just mother to your children but she is your wife, help mate, partner, bone of your bone, mirror of your other side and she completes you. Therefore don't treat her like a slave whatsoever attitude she display be sure that is your other side learn to handle it and control it in prayers since it is God that give her to you, manage her very well is the gift of God and favour from the Lord.
If she volunteers, fine! That may be once in a blue moon but it does not dignify a lady to run a man's kitchen and toilet when she is not yet married to him.
My husband told me while courting he wasn't marrying me to slave to him! He wasn't marrying me to cook, do dishes, laundry etc till I drop dead. I principally got married to fulfil vision, others are secondary.
That doesn't mean I won't do chores. I enjoy doing all my chores. We share the cleaning and running the home together and it's great.
Couples are partners in marriage. No master no slave, no boss, no servant, no tiger, no goat!
It's a loving leader and a submissive follower; two lovers, two best friends, two soul mates, a couple who honestly respect and honour each other.
Ladies don't marry a task master.
Don't marry a man who always demand for sex like all you are born to do is have sex and die!
Don't marry a man who commands and orders you around!
Don't marry a lazy, smelly, dirty, spoilt weakling who is fond of messing every where up and expect you to clean them up.
If he is not responsible enough to do his chores as a bachelor, he is not ready for marriage regardless of the length of his beard and quantity of gray hair on his head!
Respect yourself and carry yourself with dignity. You will do the laundry and have sex when you get married. Even after the wedding you are till his help mate not a slave or just only the mother of his Children, you
Don't be desperate to get married at at all cost.
Men, treat your woman with dignity and honour and she will give you peace and joy all the days of her life!
May the good Lord grant you understanding.
Thanks for reading. God bless.
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