THINGS A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP MUST HAVE

THINGS A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP MUST HAVE

  August 22, 2021    Victor Jegede

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 THINGS A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP MUST HAVE

1) RESPECT

A Relationship without Respect will lead to ABUSE.

Respect is shown by how a person TALKS to you, and how they TREAT you.

A person who insults you in public and in private, never considers your opinions, such a person doesn't respect You..

Don't stay in a Relationship where you have no Voice. A Relationship/Marriage where you have NO VOICE is a PRISON and your PARTNER is the JAILER .

2) TRUST

Without TRUST, a Relationship will give you HYPERTENSION.

You should not date someone you can't trust, that you don't trust them is a warning sign, ignoring this may not end well.

AND you should not date someone who doesn't trust you, if they don't trust you, you'll always be a suspect in their eyes even when innocent.

3) MUTUAL INTEREST/EFFORT

A Relationship is not a SOLE-PROPRIETORSHIP but a PARTNERSHIP, never carry one alone.

You love them, do they love you?

You trust them, do they trust You?

You'll die for them, will they die for you?

Are you the boo of your boo?

A Relationship that is one ended will exhaust you and eventually leave you broken, it's better not to start, believe me, you canor finish it.

If you sense the interest, sacrifices and efforts are one sided, for your own good, retreat, it's better to RETREAT than to proceed and end in REGRET.

4) LOVE

Love as exemplified by Kindness, Care and Sacrifice.

5) FRIENDSHIP.

Question: What is a Relationship without Friendship?

Answer: Civil Service.

6) JESUS.

God, Himself is love. Any relationship without JESUSSHIP in it then, the ship shall surely wreck.

A Relationship where you can't joke, you can't be yourself, you can't come back to the person you love and feel happy in their company, that one is a SITUATIONSHIP

Over the years, what will make any Marriage not to become boring and mechanical is Friendship. Always start here, don't jump into COMMITMENT when you haven't made sure you both have FRIENDSHIP....

Be FRIENDS before you become LOVERS and remain FRIENDS AFTER. 

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A Happy Marriage is Our Portion.

God no go shame Us and We no go shame God.